the naked truth about being a pastor

The “first” words I wish I spoke

2021-07-04T18:06:31+00:00By |Church Plant Lessons 101, Shearing Sheep|

On the journey of planting Damascus Road Church, there have been a lot of "firsts."  There was the first set up, first public service, the first worship set, and the first communion.  There were the first leaders, the first elders, the first converts, the first members, and the first baptisms.  I remember the first "Amen", the first mean email, the first stupid decision, the first confrontation, the first church discipline, even the first people who left.  Then there is the first big move into a new building, the first roots put down, the first "home."  What I don't remember are what the first words preached at our new building were.  I'm sure they are recorded but the fact that I don't remember them means I didn't try to make them memorable. Quite honestly, I don't think I really considered those as a "first", didn't try to make them "special", or [...]

IN or just AT church?

2021-07-04T18:08:45+00:00By |Church Plant Lessons 101, Random Thoughts, Shearing Sheep|

All of us are guilty of talking a lot about what we don’t like about the church, but we don’t often talk about what the church actually is. A common definition in the dictionary describes the church as “a building for Christian worship”.  It's a wonder how anyone might come to this conclusion reading the New Testament description of churches who seem to be without buildings for the most part.   It goes without saying that the church is more than a building, but what "more" means is rarely asked because we assume understanding when we shouldn't .   And even if someone offers an answer,  it’s often colored by  traumatic Sunday school experiences, mean people, weird people,  cliquey people, juvenile legalisms, cheesy music, deathly boring sermons, terrible leaders, and/or meaningless traditions. It ends up being more of a diatribe than a definition. These negative experiences have led to an increasing number [...]

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